My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

I John 3:18

We may never know the impact the love of God flowing through us has on an individual. That's why the enemy wants us to look at what someone is doing that is not so good so as give a reason not to help them.  However, the love of God looks beyond human faults and provides the solution to meet the needs of every situation in our lives.